400+ Language Exchange Topics (organized By Language Level & Theme)

After you have learned how to exchange languages, it is going to be very important to discuss language topics.

Why?

It is easy to become bored during a Zoom or Skype call once a week with the same person. All you have to do is talk about is last week, work progress, languages, and what happened.

A list of topics for conversation is one of my favorite tips in language exchange. But, I do two to five language exchanges each week …. There were many smaller and less organized language exchange topics online that I couldn’t find.

The ultimate list of topics for language exchange is here! Hope you enjoy!

How to Use These Language Exchange Topics (START HERE)

This handy graphic will show you how to get the most from this list before you jump in!

(Also, I want to thank Ingrid, my language exchange partner! She was the first person to me to discuss language exchange topics. Then she helped me create mine. Her creative language blog can be found at SecondHalfTravels.com.)

BEFORE You Start
Check the language level of each person to determine which conversation level they should be working with. TIP: While A-level topics are still fun for C-level students, C-level topics are too difficult for A-level students.
Ask your language partner what interests them. Make sure you have the same interests and comfort levels as your language companion.

WORKING THROUGH THE LANGUAGE CHANGE TOPICS
– Split your time 50/50. Do you want to do a 2-language exchange? Spend the first half learning one language and then the second.
– Ask everyone to answer. Group chat: Choose one question to ask, and then make a circle for everyone to answer.
One chat per theme There are enough language topics on all of our lists to make it possible for you to have weekly exchanges with one person for a whole year.

These are just a few more ways to create great language exchanges.

This page is a great place to start! Here are some conversation menues that we have created after you’ve finished it.

Language Exchange Subjects

Describe yourself in 3 words (adjectives).
– Do you remember a nickname? It was what?
As you get older, what gets worse? What is better?
– What is your favorite thing about yourself?
– What is your greatest quality?
– What was the worst fear you had as a child?
– What was your age when you left home? Why?
Are you more proud of your childhood than your peers in the country? Why or not?
– When did you learn to cook? What inspired you?
– Do your siblings live with you? Which of the following is most important to you: Are you the youngest, oldest or middle child?
– When were you born? What was the reason you got that job?
– What is the one thing someone borrowed from your and has never returned? Is it something you are missing?
– When do people start school in your nation? What are your thoughts?
– When people get married in your nation, how old are they? What are your thoughts?
What happens when someone leaves your culture?
– Which is your most important accomplishment in life? It’s why do you believe it’s so important?
– What is the most important decision you made in your life? Did you almost make a different decision? What would you have done if you had not made the decision?
– What is the greatest piece of advice that you have ever received?
– Which one of these things are you so bad at, that you have given up trying it again? Is it something you would ever do again?
– What is one thing that you are incredibly bad at, but still excel at?
– What are your future plans?
– What is the most memorable compliment you received from someone?
– Which is your oldest item? Why is it still in your possession?
Describe the smell of your childhood.
– Are you able to recall any significant events or situations that no one else has ever heard of? How did it happen?
– Tell your younger self what one thing you would tell them.
– Which day and why would you go back to live?
Consider this: What actress or actor would you prefer to play you, if you had your entire life as a film?
– Which age would you choose if it were possible to remain the same for your entire life?
– What misconceptions do people have about your abilities? Why?

Communication & The Mail
– Do any of you ever write letters? Why or not?
Is it thoughtful to send postcards?
– What are your thoughts on emojis
Which are your reasons for using them?
– Are you buying more items online that you bought 5 years ago to have shipped to your home? Why or not?
– Why would anyone want stamps? (Have there ever been anyone who doesn’t?
What do you think? Why? What are you going to do with the gifts you get?
– Why do people send printed invitations to specific parties (weddings in particular) instead of electronic ones?
– Which letter was your most memorable?
– Which was your first mail package?
– Why is a public postal office important?
Have you ever met a penpal through school, church, or another phase of your life.
– Why are some people still writing letters and cards?
What do you think the roles of social media and emails in your daily life? What are the differences between them?
– What do you prefer to talk with friends via text message or phone call?
– Which do you prefer for family communication?
Are you adamant that the art and craft of writing beautiful letters will never be forgotten?
Do you feel that online shopping is a good or bad thing for small-business owners?
How is it possible for someone to use instant messaging and cell phones to become toxic? Have you ever experienced this?
– How do you envision the future postal service?
– What do you think the winner is when a company goes completely electronic? They no longer mail out notices or bills by mail.
– Do you think historians of the future will refer to Tweets as historians today cite correspondences?

Daily Plan

While this topic might seem small-talk, it is actually a way to teach beginner language learners some useful ways to use grammar and vocabulary, and for advanced students to refresh their vocabulary from daily life.

What is a typical day for an Adult in your Culture?
What is your average day like?
– What is the normal time people get up in the morning and go to bed at night?
– Do you work on weekends? Is it okay for people working on weekends?
– Are your organized? Why or not? Are you willing to make a change?
– Which type of work is most important to you? (Early in the morning, 9-5 and leisure, hardwork, etc.
– Were you a student who wore uniforms to school? Is it common in your area?
What is the dress code for office jobs in your area?
– How often do you consume caffeine in your morning coffee, tea, or other caffeinated beverages? Why or not?
Are you a believer in waking up early? Are you adamant that those who get up earlier are more productive than those who do not?
– Who was the biggest group of people that you had to present to at school or work? It went well.
– Which time would your ideal day look like? What would your average daily calorie intake be?

Household

Although “family” isn’t always a topic of conversation, it is worth asking the other person if they are interested before you decide to have an entire chat about it. While I tried my best to avoid making certain questions difficult for adopted children, immigrant children, and others, it was something that I had to consider while writing this article.

– Who is your closest family member?
– Are you a parent? Why or not?
What size family do you believe is the ideal?
What does your culture think about last names? Which last names should someone have if they are married?
– What are you going to do when your family gets together?
– Which object was your favorite? Is there a history?
Tell us about your family’s favorite tradition. Do you consider it cultural or personal?
What is the importance of family in your country/culture?
– Is there a culture that places gender roles on the table? What are your thoughts about these roles?
Is hiding things from parents a normal behavior in your culture? What are your views on that?
– Do you have a story to share about the life of your parents?
– Do you remember a great story from your grandparents?
Are friends considered family?
– Which ancestor would you like to talk to?
– Which name would you give your new name if it were possible?
– If you were all in high school together, would you be teenage friends with your parents? Why or not?

Occupations

The strange relationship we have with work and jobs crosses cultures. This is an excellent place to practice storytelling. It also helps you improve your ability and ask the right follow-up questions.

What’s your current job? What are you most passionate about your job?
– What are you most unhappy about your job?
– Are you confident that you are a good employee?
Why or not?
– Which was your first job?
– What was your most exciting job?
– Which was your worst job?
– What were your childhood dreams? Why?
– Were you able to decide your career path? Why or not?
– What are your most important jobs? Why?
– Is there a job you don’t value? Why?
– What job would you choose if you had the chance to have in this world?
– What job would you consider the most difficult?
– What career would you like to pursue if you were able to take on any job, regardless of how much training you have?

Learning

Education questions can be split between political and personal. Ask great questions again and have fun with this one!

Are you a believer that a university education should be compulsory? Why or not?
– Would you like to return to university? Why or not?
– How long have people been going to school here?
– Which subjects are most in demand at school?
What lunch do school students eat?
What was your favourite subject at school? Why?
– Which was your least favourite subject at school? Why?
Which teacher was your favourite in middle school and high school? Why?
– Which class was the most boring?
– What was your most unexpected class?
– What value do you place on your country’s students? (High test scores. Critical thinking. Practical skills.
– What structure is your university? Is there a credit system? A focus?
– What is the reputation of high schools in your country? What type of schools are there at this level?
– What advice would you give to young people who are considering going to university in their country?
– What are your thoughts on the best way for students to learn? Writing, tests, or some other method?
Is there a divide in who can and cannot go to university in your country?
Do you remember a book that you loved in school? Which book did you love?
– Did your high school offer arts classes? Why or not?
– Are students required to do homework in the country they are from? What does that look like?
– What education did you receive as a child? Is that what was expected of them?
Do you celebrate graduations in your country? If not, why? What does celebration look like?
– Which classes would you have preferred to take?
– Would it be worth your time to return to university and obtain a job? Why/why not?
– Would your education focus have been changed if it were possible?
– What would you change first if you could reform the university system of your country?
– Do you dream of becoming a teacher? Which subject would you choose? Why not?

Language Exchange Discussions around… Languages!

Everyone’s favorite subject! These questions were so much fun to make!

– Which languages are you proficient in or have you studied?
– Which language is your favourite and why?
– Which languages aren’t interesting to you?
– What are your thoughts on conlanguages? (Esperanto, Klingon, etc)
– Which language do you prefer? Why?
– What do think is your favorite accent?
What is your favorite accent?
What qualities make a good teacher in language teaching?
– Do spelling matters to you? Why or not?
What language would you prefer to learn in a school?
– Which languages were you raised around?
– Which language(s) did you speak as a child? Do you speak it/them? Why or not?
– What does it mean to be a dictionary? Is there a dictionary you love?
– Which languages are you interested in learning?
– What are some of your favorite phrases or words in one your languages?
– What’s the most difficult part of the language you speak right now?
– Why did this language become your chosen language?
What motivates and inspires you to learn more?
– Did your school teach languages to children? Was that what it was like?
– What is the most common misconception about the language we speak now? It’s a common belief.
– What is the best language learning tool/resource you have ever used?
– What are you going to do if you don’t want to study?
– What importance do accents seem to you?
– What was the first time that you felt like your target language was progressing?
– Are you able to identify with monolingual, bilingual and multilingual words? Why or not?
– What’s your top piece of advice to anyone trying to learn another language?
Do you believe that everyone should be able to speak English and French at the same time?
– What would you have done differently if you were a language learner?
– What language would you be able to instantly learn if you were able to speak one language?
– Which languages would you like to speak?
– Do language learning options really exist for everyone? Why or not?

Domestic Existence

Relationships with people and places we live with are unique from one culture to another. This is a great place to learn or refresh beginner vocab.

– Which is your preference, country or city?
– Who will you be living with? Which part is the most difficult?
– Do your pets have pets? Why or not?
– What animals are most loved in your local area?
– What is the most famous pet name in your country or area?
What is the most popular architecture in your area or city? It looks like.
How do your homes look in your local area? Size, bedrooms, etc?
How many people live in your culture together?
– Do cleaning is something you enjoy? Why or not?
– How often do you travel? Why or not?
– Where were you born? It was like?
What has changed in your town or city over the past twenty years?
– Is there gentrification in your community? What’s the relationship between you and it?
– What is the name of your pet? If you don’t have pets, what’s your favorite pet name?
– Have you ever had pets as a child? Why or not?
– What kitchens do you see in your area?
What does your bathroom look like in your area?
– Where are the elderly living in your locality? What are your thoughts?
Are there many homeowners in your city or town? Why or not?
What is your opinion on the importance of interior design in your home? Why or not?
– What would be your dream place to live?
How would you like your dream apartment/house to look?
– Which of the following animals could you safely share your home with?

Events and Parties

– Which holidays are most important to you? What dinners, parties and events are important to celebrate?
What are some foods that people like to eat at parties?
– How does a party for a birthday look in your country?
What is the appropriate amount of alcohol to be served at an event?
– How polite is it to arrive at parties that start at 7:00pm?
Is it better to go out with friends on Friday nights or stay at home?
What makes a party great?
– Which party was your favorite?
Are weddings boring? What makes a wedding enjoyable or dull?
– What was the worst event or party you have ever attended?
What do you really enjoy doing when you are surrounded by friends?
Having people over to your home to celebrate something is stressful.
– Which event was your favorite?
How do you choose the right gift for an event?
– What’s the one holiday you have a social obligation to attend, but fear about?
Which culture hosts the most exciting events? (Parties, festivals, etc?)
– What is the best way to make friends at a party?
Which milestones and life achievements are most prominent in your culture? What life accomplishments/milestones are not celebrated that you wish were?
What would the party look like if it cost you 100,000 euros?
What would you do if your budget was zero?

Politeness

I was inspired to write this section by the many faux pas and groseros I have had to make with friends from other nations. For any additional ideas, leave them in comments.

– What are some polite topics that you would use to talk with strangers?
What is politeness in talking to the cashier about food you bought at a grocery shop? You think so. What are your thoughts?
– What do you think the important colors of black, white and red, green, blue or green?
Can you please give an example of a polite way for someone to behave when they are dealing with a taxi driver/waiter? What are some polite things tourists should do?
What is the one thing everyone in your culture cares about more than you? (Ex: personal space, beauty, social obligations, politics, etc)
– What’s the worst thing foreigners can do while visiting your country?
Which country would you like to give tips to? What is the average amount?
Why or not?
– Can you touch someone you’re talking to or friends? Can you please explain why or when?
– Show us examples of your culture’s non-verbal body language.
– What are the best topics to avoid when you speak with people not from your culture?
– What rude question might someone ask you in another country? What are your thoughts?
Do you invite people to your group or wait for them to invite?
– Do your beliefs about people’s opinions and actions reflect the culture? (“That shirt isn’t good enough” vs. “I think a different shirt might be better”) Is this important?
– One thing you wish that you knew about learning languages before you started.
– What would you do if you could use a time machine once?

The past

– How did you enjoy history class as a child? Why or not?
– Do history studies seem important? Why or not?
– Are you more interested in ancient or modern history? Why?
– What time period did you find most interesting in your cultural history? Why?
– Which period did you find most boring? Why?
Do you want to learn 10 languages, or just one? Why?
– Name one historical figure you would like to meet and tell us why.
– Which event would you choose to go back to and why?
– Which event would stop a single thing from happening if it were possible to go back in history? How would it be stopped?
You may only go back one time. But, be warned that you could alter the history of humanity by using the butterfly effect. Are you willing to take that risk? What can be done to avoid making history?

Friendship and dating

Who are we able to know beyond our immediate families? What are their contributions to our lives?

What do you enjoy doing when you’re out with friends?
What personality traits are the most important for a friend? What about romantic partners?
– Does it make sense for your country to have friends or relationships with people from different religions and political views? Why or not?
– How can you greet people from other cultures? How can you greet your friends?
– How important is your culture’s community?
Which qualities are most important to you in a friend?
– Which social role do you play in your friends’ group?
Do you remember your first movie, TV or celebrity crush?
– Do you have any advice for someone who is trying to flirt with someone from your culture?
What is the culture of dating?
How can someone move to your city or country?
– Which was your best date?
– Which was your worst date?
What are your country’s casual parties? (Dinners, birthdays, etc.) What does it look like?
– How does your culture view weddings?
– Which was your favorite party?
What should brides wear to weddings in their country?
How should friends dress for casual evenings at their house?
Which of you has been your best friend for the longest? Are you still friends?
Do you have a friend or family member who is no longer with you? Why?
Do you have a favorite person you wish you could have met sooner in your life? Or had never met ever?

Cuisine

Lower-level languages often teach food vocabulary. You may not be able to name herbs or explain how to cook a recipe. These questions will hopefully inspire you to think beyond the box and find your own answers.

– What is your favourite dish?
– Which cuisine is your favourite?
– What’s one essential cultural dish everyone should try while visiting your city or region?
What is the most popular food in your neighborhood?
Is there a family member who has a favorite dish they cook every time? What is the subject?
– Which is your least favorite food?
Which food are you most fond of eating? Why?
What are your cultural views on “foreign” cuisines? Is it really common to eat foreign food? Mexican food is popular in America, while Germans eat different Turkish foods.
– Are you a vegetarian? (Moral, allergies, religious, etc.) What does it take to live like that?
– Which restaurant was your favorite?
– How do you remember your first experiences with eating “foreign” food? What was it? Why did it appeal to you, and what were your first impressions of it?
What was your favourite food as a child? What do you think about this now?
– What was your most memorable meal?
– Which is the most spicy food you have ever tried? What was the outcome?
Which food are you most eager to try?
– Which meal did you dislike growing up?
– Are your vegetarians or vegans? Why or not?
– Who pays when you take a group of friends out to eat? How does it work?
– Are you a skilled cook?
– What was your most memorable compliment about your cooking?
What should you do if you go out to eat at a terrible restaurant?
– Do you know of any unique beverages that your culture has that people should try?
– Which is your most popular beverage? Do you prefer tea, coffee, or another beverage? Is it something you enjoy? Why or not?
What is your culture’s attitude to alcohol? Are business meetings encouraged? Is it acceptable to give children gifts? Is this illegal? Discuss your thoughts and explain.
– What vegetable or fruit would you choose to be if you could be a fruit?
What would your reaction be if you were to find out that caffeine had been made illegal? How far would you go to keep using it?
– What one food would you eat every day if you had to choose?

Language exchange topics concerning religion and political issues

Religion and politics

These questions were less about you as an individual and more about the society. These questions can be skipped if neither you nor your partner are excited.

– How does your city or town run? (Mayor and council, meeting of village, etc.
What are the best ways to dress for religious services?
Vote! Where and how do you vote?
What laws govern language use in your locality? What language laws are in effect in your area?
– What religion do you believe is the most popular?
– Does religion play an important role in your daily life?
– What relationship does religion have with the government in your area?
Is there a problem in your area? These are their names?
– Which do you believe is the greatest problem facing humanity right now?
Which law do you consider the most dangerous in your country right now? Why?
– What’s the one thing you know is legal, but not legally in your current location?
– What was the most significant political change you have seen in your life?
You are Jeff Bezos, the richest person in the world. He earns approximately 8,961,187 USD/hour and has 196 trillion (a million-million) dollars. Jeff has 24 hours to make any decision you wish, but it cannot be reversed. What are you going to do?
– What would you change in a law of your country?
– Which one of the following international laws would you recommend that all countries follow?

Vacations

Time for some nostalgia! It’s fun to share these with someone who hasn’t heard them before.

– Which holiday do you love the most? Why?
– Which holiday do you find the most difficult? Why?
– Which holiday is the most significant in your culture’s calendar? Why?
– What does your culture celebrate birthdays?
– Do you know of any local celebrations that are celebrated in your community?
What are your cultural festivals? Are they available for any holiday or season?
– Which song will everyone know when you host a party in your town?
– Which do you prefer, giving or receiving gifts? Why?
– What are your bank holidays/federal holidays? Are they important to you?
Do you give gifts on any holidays? What’s the tradition of gift-giving? (If you don’t know, why not?)
– What is the greatest gift you have ever received?
What is your worst gift?
– What to do when you don’t have the gift you want? Why?
Are there any holidays that are controversial or not popular in your culture’s? They are what?
Is there a holiday or occasion that you are only allowed to eat a certain food?
Should you bring anything with you to a dinner party? What should you bring?
What are some good ideas for wedding gifts?
What gifts should you give someone on their birthday? What are the best gifts to buy?
– What example would you give of a bad gift?
– What holiday would you like to start?

Myths and Paranormal

Learn some C-level grammar and vocabulary that is culturally relevant. This vocabulary is not for A level students. However, it’s a great way to get excited about the subject and use it as an inspiration to improve your own language!

– Do your lucky charms bring you luck? It is what? Or why?
– Is there one thing that you are blessed with? Are you open to luck?
– What is the most outrageous conspiracy theory you have ever heard of?
– Which conspiracy theory is most likely, the most dangerous, and least probable?
– Do ghosts exist? Why or not?
– Do You Believe in Aliens? Why or not?
– Which cultures have some of the most interesting myths? Why?
– Which fictional universe would you most like? Why?
– Who would you like to have as a friend?
– You’re transported into the last fantasy or science fiction book/movie/series/game you read. Will you survive? How will your life turn out?
Do you remember going to a psychic and having your palm read or tarot interpreted? What was your experience? Do you want to be involved?
Are you concerned about rituals such as Ouiji boards and seances? Why or not?
– Have your ever seen anything supernatural? (Bigfoot, angels, UFOs, etc.)
– Do You Believe Time Travel will Be Possible One Day? Why or pourquoi not?
– Is your culture open to witches? What are your current and historical opinions?
– Do you have mythical creatures in your culture? (Fairies, dragons, Big Foot, Moth Man, etc?)
– You are the exact opposite of you. How would they look?
What ability could you gain next if you had the opportunity to level up your life through a videogame? (Health, intelligence, speed, strength, etc.)
– All of the time has stopped except for you for 24 hours. What would YOU do?
– What would your life be like if you could communicate with all living creatures?
How many years of your lifetime would you trade for one million dollars if you could?
– You take a magical potion that will make you sleepless every night. What would you do if you had more time each night?
– Is there a folktale or myth that you love? It’s possible to tell the difference.
– What would your superpower be?
– What would be your one magic power?
– Which power would you consider the most dangerous?
– What would you like to see if aliens existed?

Hobbies and Pastimes

Are there hobbies that people can still enjoy despite the longer work day?

– What do people do outside on a nice day?
What are people doing when it’s bad outside?
– Do You Like to Read? Why or not?
– Which series do you prefer to watch on TV? Why?
– Which do you prefer, watching or playing sports? Or both? Why?
– Videogame competitions are one of the fastest-growing categories in sports. Are you a fan? Why or not?
– What is the most loved game for small children in your country?
What seasonal activities are most popular in your area at one time of the calendar year?
What hobbies did your parents have that you don’t?
What is your first interest or hobby that you can remember from childhood?
– Which TV channel is missing that should exist?
– Are you a board gamer? Which board game is your favourite? Why not?
– Have anything ever been collected?
– Social media, video games and TV steaming can be addictive. Are they worthy of warnings? Why or not?
– Which reality TV show would be your first season on?
– Are you interested in any rival sports teams? Do you know of any?
What are children doing during school holidays in your area? Are there any memorable moments?
Do you think learning languages should be fun?
– What hobby would you choose if you had the time or money to do it?
– How do you feel about “hustleculture”, or having hobbies only if it makes you money?
Adults who attend media conferences are starting to cosplay as their favorite video games, movies, or comic characters (“cosplay”). What do YOU think about this phenomenon. If you could dress up as someone, who would it be?
Would you cheat if you could win a game of board games and not be caught? Why or not?

Outdoors and sports

Consider the physical limitations of your partner in this topic of language exchange. Questions have been included for language learners who are disabled, use wheelchairs, or have suffered tramatic injuries. However, it is best to not assume that everyone can do the same thing.

– What are people doing outside of your home?
Are you a fan of sports? Why or not?
Which season is your favourite to be outside? What are you doing?
– Which are your favorite sports teams or leagues? How do they influence your perception of you?
– Do You Watch the Olympics? Why or not?
Is there a way for people with disabilities to get to beaches and parks close by their homes? What are your thoughts?
– Have your ever played any sports? How did it impact your life?
– Which sport do you find most annoying? Why?
Auto racing is a sport? (Nascar Grand Prix and etc. Why or not?
Is cheerleading or dancing a sport? Why or not?
– Do your skills in swimming allow you to be a competent swimmer? Why not? If so, when were you taught?
Indoor gyms are popular in your area. What are your thoughts?
– Do your workouts regularly? Do you exercise regularly?
– What do you prefer: Walking or yoga? Or more intense exercise like weight lifting or running? Why?
– Which plant or animal species is unique to your locality? These species can you name?
Have you ever been camping? Is it possible to describe the experience, and why are you still not going?
– Do you remember ever sleeping outside? It was where, and how was it?
Are there parks near your home? What are they like?
– What are you listening to while you exercise? Why?
– What are the most dangerous animals, plants, or weather conditions near you? This could have a negative impact on your daily life.
– What were your favorite sports in high school?
Are you a hunter? Are you morally opposed to hunting? Why or not?
– Which sport do you think you would choose to become an instant superstar in?
– Who is your favorite sports figure?
Are you a believer that steroids and other drugs should not be allowed in sport competitions? Why or not?
– What are your top outdoor skills? (Making fires, building shelters, foraging for food, etc.) Are you able to do these things? Are you aware of anyone who knows?

Health and Healthcare

Health is personal and political. Asking too much about the health of someone else is not a good idea unless they are willing to answer.

How can someone locate a doctor in their country? How can they schedule an appointment?
– What do YOU think about the healing properties of crystals and magnets?
– Who pays the bill for a visit to the doctor?
– What are you doing in your daily life to keep yourself healthy? What are you doing to stay healthy?
– What’s your bedtime routine?
– How do you rate your country’s health care system? What is the reason for this belief?
What training is required for doctors in your country? Who pays this training?
Let us know your opinion about antibiotics.
Is it simple to become an American nurse or doctor? What are your thoughts?
– What are the policies of your country regarding marijuana use What are your thoughts?
– What is your vision of the future healthcare system in your country’s future?
– What are the biggest problems in healthcare?
What are your thoughts on alcohol? What do you think about alcohol?
– What would you change about the healthcare system in your country?
What would you do to change the laws in your country regarding drugs? Why wouldn’t it be changed?

Climate, Geography, Urban Life

Language learning is often focused on culture. What about the places where we live? What are they like? How can we survive them and what do you do about it?

– Are there any outdoor activities that tourists can enjoy in your area?
– Name the nearest major city. What is the architecture or buildings like?
Which type of transport is most popular in your area?
How do you choose between your preferred and least favourite mode of transport?
Which seasons are your favorites and least favourites?
What are the best activities to do in the coldest months?
What is the best activity for the hot days?
– What terrain is there around you? (Deserts, plains, forests, mountains, etc)
– What kind or bad weather are you dealing with? (Blizzards, thunderstorms, monsoons, tornados, etc)
Are there public places, restaurants, public transport, parks, or public spaces in your area that are accessible for wheelchair-bound people? What are your thoughts?
– What street would you like to rename?
– Are there any important things happening in your area?
Which climate do you prefer to visit? Why? (Desert, tropical, subarctic, etc.)
– Are there natural phenomena you are interested in seeing but have not yet seen? (Snow/aurora borealis/ocean, rain forest/mountains, arctic, etc.
– Which was your worst natural disaster? What are you most fondly able to recall?
What is the attitude of people in your area towards plastic cups and bags?
– What do you think about the recycling and garbage system in your neighborhood? What are your thoughts?
– What would your ideal urban design look like? (Describe housing. Transport, green space, shopping, industry, etc.
Is it important that children are taught about climate change at an early age?
– Which of these is your coldest?
Where have you been in your life? What was it like to be there?
Do you believe that larger governments (e.g. the US, China, or EU) should be held responsible for the consequences of climate change on a micronation? What should they do if this is the case? Why not?
– What urban planning issues are you facing in your area? What are their causes and how can they be solved?
What has the climate been like in your region in the last 10 years? If yes, what is the best way to do it?
Do you consider climate change the most alarming aspect of modern life?
– What would be the best law to prevent climate change?

Tourism and Travel

This was my goal when I created these questions. It’s important to remember that not all passports are the same.

What are your top recommendations for tourists to visit in your area?
– What are your top recommendations for tourists to visit in your country’s capital?
Which is your favourite place that you’ve visited?
What are some places that are special to your family? (An old home, a favorite spot on the beach, or a church.
Which mode of transport do you find most enjoyable? Why?
– Name a country that you know little about, but can name. (Can anyone from the group give you any information about it?)
– What is your view of travel? Why do they think it is?
Do you prefer the country or cities when you travel to a new place?
– Do museums interest you? Why or not?
– Where were you the most lost? How did you get back on your feet?
AirBNB is a company that converts apartments into lodging and hotels. What has the impact been on any of your cities or places?
– What are your thoughts on the expression “open borders” What does the phrase “open borders” mean to your mind?
Describe the first time you met another culture.
– What is the best planet you would like to visit?

Style and Fashion

This topic category isn’t for fashionistas only! Plenty of nostalgia, politics, and culturally-interesting questions for anyone to enjoy.

What are you wearing every day?
– What’s your favorite thing about your closet?
What do you think about your hairstyle? Why?
Do you find shopping fun?
Which celebrity has the most fans?
– Do ethical stickers are checked on labels? (Crueltyfree, Made In America, etc.) Why?
– Is there a style you prefer?
What are the most common clothes that people wear to the beach? Is there a law that dictates what you can wear or cannot?
– What’s the most shocking trend in 5 years, and it’s not popular right now?
– Do your employers think it is fair to make uniforms mandatory for employees who have to buy them? Why or pourquoi not?
– What is your worst fashion mistake?
– Which fashion trend would you like to see return from the past or your own lifetime?
– What is one piece that you don’t wear often (or haven’t worn) in your closet? Why?
What are your thoughts on makeup?
– Which pair of shoes is your favorite? What was it that made them “the best?”
– What was your favorite accessory in high school?
– Name one of the traditional pieces of clothing in your culture. What do you think about this?
Do you remember a bad haircut? What was it like?
– What is the culture’s view of shaving?
What are some popular areas to purchase clothing? What is the atmosphere like? What are they selling?
– Do you have a favorite fashion brand or designer? What do you think their clothes look like?
– What outfit would it be if you had a uniform every day?
Suppose you had an unlimited amount of money for clothing, accessories, and grooming items. How would that change your style?
What are your thoughts on animal testing? What are the alternatives to animal testing?
– Are you a manufacturer of leather, wool, or other animal products? Why or not?
How would you change your hairstyle if it was possible to do so for just one day?

Art and music

Are you a music lover? Are you familiar with the history of the language that you are studying? These questions aren’t for professional artists.

– Do your walls have art? Talk about your favorite piece of art if you do. If not, you should!
– What music are you most fond of?
Which music genre do you dislike and why?
– What are your thoughts on modern art? (Examples include Jackson Pollack and Juan Mirro).
– Who is a good artist in your language who you recommend to your partner for exchange?
– Did your family ever learn to play an instrument?
– Have any celebrities ever visited your home? How did you react?
– Has your musical taste changed since highschool. How? Why or not?
What album has your heart listened to most often in your lifetime? Which one is it? (If an album is not available, why not a specific artist?
– Do you know how to karaoke? What are your favorite stories about karaoke? Why not?
– Which 5 songs are most loved at weddings in your culture?
– Which art style do you like best?
– Who was the most influential musician in your life?
– What were your feelings about which of the most popular bands in highschool?
– What one song does your family listen to that brings you back to them? Do you want to discuss it?
– Are you a visual artist? Do you enjoy making visual art? If you don’t like it, when was the last time?
Which artist do you consider the greatest visual artist of all time? Why?
– Do fashion and art appeal to you? Why or not? What circumstances?
– What are your thoughts on elaborate nail art? If you want to see more pictures, Google it.
Makeup art or a mere hobby? Which is it? And where can you find the line?
– Which instrument would you choose to master if you had the chance?
– Which painting do you think you would choose to hang in a house?
– Which musician would you like to meet?
– What album would you listen to the most for the rest?
What would your title look like if your entire life were a piece of art?
– What title would you give your life if it were a musical album?

Literature and Books

This list contains a variety of topics that will help you to give and receive great recommendations and deepen your knowledge about other cultures.
– Do You Like to Read? Why or not?
– What are your top three favorite book genres?
Are you more comfortable with audiobooks than paper? Why?
– Do poetry interests you? Are you a regular reader of poetry?
– Which poem is your favourite and why? Do you have a favorite poem?
– Which literature genre do you dislike and why?
– Do lyrics of songs have the potential to become poetry? What conditions?
– Who is your most important writer? Why?
– Who is your favorite book protagonist? Why?
– Which one of your books do you recommend everyone read?
– Which book is most popular in your country or culture?
Is there a book that you would recommend?
– Which was your childhood favorite book? Why?
– Which book was your first that you remember ever reading?
Do you have any books or ideas?
– If only one book could be read over the course of your entire life, which would it be?
– Which writer would you like to meet?
– What book universes (Hogwarts and Hunger Games, etc.) would you like to visit?
– Who and why would you choose to have lunch with?

Movies & Shows

This is the part that will most be loved. If your partner hasn’t seen the show yet, don’t ruin it for them!

Tell us about your top 5 all-time favorites. Or your top five?
– What movie do you consider to be overrated?
– Name one TV show that you believe is underrated.
– Which movie is the most important from your culture?
– When are subtitles used? What are your preferences?
– Do films in languages other than your own are something you enjoy? Why or not?
Do you remember any TV or film crushes when you were a child? Do you remember your first?
– Which movie or series was your favorite? Would you recommend this movie?
How many times have you seen a movie in your entire life?
Ask your child what was their favorite movie or TV show. Why?
– Are you represented in mainstream films or TV shows? Why or not?
– Which cliche do you find most offensive in TV or movies?
– What’s your favorite film or show you’ve seen?
Which country is best at producing TV and movies? Why?
– Do subtitles work better than dubs? Which are you most likely to use them?
Do you prefer to never again watch or read a series or movie? Why?
– Which TV or movie character would you like to dine with?

Animals and plants

Language learners are inclined to love other people. But what about all the species with whom we live?

Is your home equipped with a yard, terrace, or garden? What is it like?
– Are you a plant lover? Why or not?
– Which animals are you most proud of?
– Are there many wild animals around your home?
What are the most thrilling and scary things you can do alone?
Which fruits and vegetables are you most fond of? These fruits and vegetables are used in what recipes?
Are there any poisonous plants in your area? Are you doing anything to prevent them?
– Which plants and gardens are most popular in your area? Can you name them?
Are you a green-thumbed (a person who has a natural talent for growing plants)? How do you see the difference?
– Are you eating certain fruits, vegetables or herbs for health benefits?
What are your fears about animals?
– What are the unique animals that live in your region?
– What plants are most important for your culture and region? Which plants are they?
– What is your cultural view of eating animals? Are you in agreement?
– Have any of you ever grown your food yourself? Is this something that is common in your area?
Which vegetable is your least favorite? Why?
– What flower would your name be if it were you? Why?
– Which animal would your name be if it were you? Why?
– Which animal, if any, would you consider as your pet?

Internet

This article is almost certain to have your opinions on cyberspace.

Which app do you love the most?
Is Wikipedia reliable? Why or not?
Is there a more toxic social media platform than others? Why or not?
– Do any of your favorite bloggers follow vloggers? Why or pourquoi not? If so, then who?
– The most watched sporting event on the planet is the video game championship. Are they sports?
– What’s your first internet memory?
– Which social media platform was your first? Is it still in use?
– Which rule is the most important for everyone who uses the internet?
– Can you put your phone down for 24 hours and not worry? What are your thoughts on this?
What is the worst thing about smartphones?
Are you a believer in the positive or negative effects of social media on politics? Why?
– Are social media sites responsible for organizing violent acts, such as protests, through the use of their networks? Why or not?
– Would you consider your relationship to your mobile phone healthy? Why or not?
Is it possible to make friends online?
– Have a person you have ever met online? How was it?
– Do you protect your online data? Do you know how to do this? If so, how do you go about it?
What does it mean to learn new languages and unlock new areas of the internet?
– Have You Ever Tried Online Dating? Why or not?
Do you consider the Internet a human-right? Why or not?
– Do you have a blog, vlog or website? What about a blog or vlog? Would you like to?
What are the worst things you can do on the Internet today? What can you do to prevent these dangerous things from happening?
What about the “unsung Heroes” of the Internet?
– Which policy would you change if Facebook were your company?
Fake news: Who should we hold accountable? What should you do to enforce this?

Gadgets

This article is almost certain to have your opinions on cyberspace.

How dependent are you on technology?
– Which tech product is most underrated? It exists, so why do you think it is?
Are smart homes (where computers control temperature and refrigerators) a good idea? Why or not?
Technology and modern people: Does it pamper them? Why or not?
– Would you ever like to live an entirely different life? Why or not?
– Do your fears about automation in the industry you work in? Why or not?
– What technology skills should young schoolchildren be taught? (Elementary school/Years 1 – 6) What about middle school? (Years 1 – 6). How about teenagers? (High School / Years 10-13).
– What do artificially intelligent robots need to do? Is that possible?
– What age should children use computers and screens? What is the reason for this belief?
Is science more popular today than it was 50 years ago? What are your thoughts on this?
Artificial intelligence poses a security risk to humans? Why or not?
– How do you get to your home country if you lose your cell phone in a foreign location?
– Should technology be controlled by politicians who aren’t tech-savvy? Why or not?
Are tech companies such as Facebook, Microsoft, and Google showing us that they are trustworthy? If so, what and how should they be protected? If they are not autonomous, what should be done? Who should regulate them?
Spaces & Physics

B2+ students are usually able to exchange language topics on science. These topics were added for A-level students. Don’t be discouraged if they prove too difficult! They are intended to be challenging.

Are you a fan of science fiction books and movies? Why or not?
Are you convinced that Pluto is a real planet? Why or not?
Describe what you imagine aliens to look like. (Describe the appearance of aliens.
Are you a government official with a space program. What are people’s thoughts?
What do you consider science and maths to be more important than literature, technology, history, or any other subjects?
– Are You Curious About Life on Other Planets? Why or not?
– Play the role of a scientist discovering a new planet. What will you call it?
– What is the reason scientists are stereotyped in schools and media as being dorky or weak?
Space research is a major part of many countries’ budgets. Is this a wise use of money? Why or not?
– What do your astronauts think is the most frustrating thing about living in zerogravity? (Food and hygiene …)Daily routine
– What makes you think that some people believe the Earth is flat?
Space tourism could become a reality within our lifetimes. (A holiday in zero gravity, a resort on Mars; or a vacation to the Moon. It is possible to take part in it. Why or not?
Elon Musk, an American Billionaire, is aiming to create a colony on Mars for humans. He claims that there will be no government. What do YOU think?
We don’t know much about the effects of space births on human babies. Are you a believer that scientists should have the ability to test and see what happens? Why or not?
– The growing problem of space debris in astronomy is an increasing concern for those who do astronomy from Earth. Are you worried that corporate satellites used for GPSs or cellphones could make it impossible to see the stars in the future?
Earth broadcasts light and sound into space in order to communicate with the rest of the world. Are you a fan of this idea?
– Is it possible that there has never been any hard evidence of alien existence?
– What would you say to an alien about human life?
– Would humans be allowed to claim a planet if they found evidence of plant or bacteria life? What about animal life? What about intelligent living? What is the best line?
– What would you do if you had the chance to travel in one day?
– Astronomy (from Earth) may become impossible due to light pollution in large cities. Would you agree to impose a midnight curfew on your city in order to allow humans to continue studying space? Why or not?

Self-care & Growth

Let’s close this list by looking forward with optimism to the future.

– What are you doing every day to make you truly happy?
– Name one thing that has happened today.
– Do others inspire you? What are their motivations? Or why?
What makes an excellent role model?
– Do self-help books appeal to you? Why or pourquoi not? Which books do you like and which ones are not?
– What’s your best habit?
– What is one of your bad habits?
– What are some of your greatest achievements in life?
– What is your definition of “self-care?”
– What is the role of self-care in your daily life?
What are your cultural views on therapy? Are you in agreement?
– What are your current goals? Why?
– Have you ever done meditation before? Do you remember your first experience with meditation? If you don’t know, what was your experience?
What should you put in a first-aid kit for mental-health?
Is it acceptable to speak of your pride or victories in your culture? What are some polite ways to do this?
– Do you accept compliments well?
What are your most influential people?
How should success measured? Do you think that is how you measure success?
What are your biggest hopes for the future?
– What was the biggest achievement of the last year?
Where do your goals take you in the next year?
– Where do You See Yourself in Five Years?
Do you have high hopes for the future in any of the following areas? What areas of your life have you the least hope for the future?
What would you do with an extra hour of your day?
– How would your time be spent if money weren’t an issue?

Bonus: how to do a language exchange tips

This list will change the way you conduct language exchanges. These are my top lessons from two years of language exchanges.

Ask many people but screen them. Many people that you ask won’t answer your questions.
You won’t get a reply, and they probably won’t share your schedule. Many people will stop responding or find it difficult to connect with you. Ask as many people as you can, but make sure to have the same interests and schedules.
– Do not tolerate a poor conversation partner. Are you a flaker on dates? Do they always arrive late? Have you ever heard someone make unflattering comments? Are you both just not compatible and spend time with someone else? You don’t have the obligation to love your partner in language exchange if you don’t like them. It’s a good idea to ask a lot!
– Divide each lesson 50/50 among your languages. If you have to do Day 1 in Language 1 as well as Day 2 in Language 2, it can become very frustrating. Simply smile at the halfway point and tell the host that you are ready to switch to the second language. Although it may feel awkward initially, it will become very familiar and comfortable soon. It’s much easier to do this anyway.
Non-native speakers are important. People want to exchange conversation in their native languages for conversations with native speakers of the target language. Advanced students might be better at a language than native speakers, and it is possible to spend more time with people who study the same language level as you. Do not discount other learners!
– Make corrections. If I make a mistake or know the right word, it’s great to be able to receive corrections by writing. Are you more comfortable trying to do your best with no corrections? Are you more comfortable working with people who are willing to give you feedback? Do you feel afraid of losing self-esteem? Do you care about this?
Ask great follow-up questions. “Why are you doing that?” “How did it feel?” Asking questions can help you make the conversation deeper and more meaningful.
Make language exchange books and film clubs. To make language exchanges more engaging, you can use an extension to stream Netflix in your target language or read the same book with your friends and have a discussion. Both have been done by me, but it is important to have a reliable friend. If you’re at the B2-C2 level, this works well with someone who is also studying the language.

Are there language exchange topics that you would like to see included in this list? Comment below to let me know what you think and I will add them to the list.